Neither.
Just really busy with soccer and ballet. Our last soccer game until January is this Saturday. She still has twice weekly practices and Futsal Sundays but no games. Ballet is in full swing with regular classes on Tuesday and Thursday and extended Nutcracker rehearsal on Tues/Thurs and Saturdays. And sometimes Fridays. And seven shows still to come.
If things are a little light here, I'm elsewhere. Really, really elsewhere.
And my friends wonder why I take a kid in soccer clothes to the ballet studio.